Husband Books First Class Plane Tickets While Wife and Kids Fly Economy

Husband Books First Class Plane Tickets While Wife and Kids Fly Economy
A woman has complained that her husband consistently books himself a first class airline seat while she sits in the back with the kids. His reasons for doing so are just wild!
Writing into theΒ New York Times Magazineβs column the womanβs story has created a huge uproar online with many saying she should divorce him ASAP. Β She explained that every time they flew she was in economy with their two kids while he sat in first class:
βHe even did this recently on an overnight flight to Paris,β the woman wrote.Β βHe justifies flying alone in first class because of the cost, and the fact that our kids (12 and 16) might feel alone if I were to travel in first with him and leave them in the rear cabin. I feel that this is unfair.β
Now she wants to know if she has a right to feel annoyed with her husband because of this.Β βMy husband has suggested travelling alone on a different flight ahead of us so that we donβt feel badly about the disparity, but this does not really address or solve the problem of the inherent selfishness in his thinking,β she continued.βAm I wrong? We are happy to travel, and love going places together, but it is still very strange.β
People were NOT happy with his decision and promptly voiced their opinions in the comments section.
βYour husband appears to be a narcissist, who loves and cares only for himself,β wrote one man.
While another said: βIf my boyfriend suggested he fly in first class and I can fly in economy, I would happily invite him to go fly first class. Then Iβd have all the time in the world to move out of the house while he is gone.β
βI wouldnβt go to the grocery store with that man, much less an overnight flight to Paris. Appalling behaviour,β wrote one woman.
βTo be honest, Iβd divorce this guy,β said one woman.
βHoney, may I suggest a good divorce lawyer? You are married to someone who sees you as βThe Helpβ,β added someone else.
βFrankly, Iβm blown away that this mother sees the disparity for herself, but is perfectly comfortable experiencing privilege while treating her own children disparately.β
βDivorce papers would shortly follow if that wasnβt the compromise; itβs representative of some serious issues in the relationship,β one advised.
βMy husband used to travel often for work so was bumped up to first class from time to time,β another shared. βHe dealt with it by rotating between us who actually sat in that seat and who sat back with our 4 kids! Seems fair to me.β
What do you think? What would you do?
The columnist, Professor Appiah, suggested perhaps the children could sit alone in economy and encouraged the woman and her husband take turns sitting in first class.
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