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How to Help Your Child Overcome Their Fear of Water

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How to Help Your Child Overcome Their Fear of Water

Every parent knows the importance of teaching their child to swim. But for some children, being in and around water can become a source of anxiety. We chatted to Anne Brown, Kingswim Area Manager to find out how parents can best help their child to overcome the fear of water and develop confidence as they learn to swim.

How common is it for a child to fear the water?

As their world expands, pre-schoolers may develop fears of new places and people. New exposures bring the fear of uncertainty. Sometimes fear can come from a concrete experience but some of it can be created by a developing imagination.

It is also important to recognise that fear is not necessarily a bad thing. Think of it as a bit of an insurance policy, without it we might jump headlong into things that maybe we shouldn’t.

While some children do suffer from anxiety disorders, fear is mostly a predictable rite of passage, a natural stage of development that we will undoubtedly encounter in our role as parents, educators, supervisors and teachers alike.

Fear of the water is quite common among children, so parents should never feel like they’re the only ones. The most important thing is to recognise the signs – restlessness, reluctance, panic, refusal, avoidance, misbehaviour and even aggression. Once parents and teachers understand the child’s behaviour may be stemming from fear, we can work towards overcoming that fear.

What steps should/can parents take to ease their child’s fear of the water?

At Kingswim we never force a child to do something that will panic them. Instead we encourage teachers to get creative to make lessons fun and relatable. Parents can do the same to encourage children in the water and promote swimming lessons as a fun and exciting activity. Below are some of the ways we encourage reluctant swimmers.

Tips for managing a fearful and reluctant swimmer

  1. Recognise the fear but project calm and confidence.
  2. Never force a child to do something that will panic them, instead use some encouraging persuasion to build trust and reassurance.
  3. Shift the focus, ask questions, and find some common ground so you can become more relatable. “Do you like Peppa Pig? Did you know Peppa Pig swims here too?” .
  4. Provide opportunity for a safe experience. Sit on the side and encourage feeling the water with feet or hands.
  5. Help the child to know what to expect. Arrive to your swimming lessons a little earlier to watch other swimmers in the pool and feel more comfortable in the new environment.
  6. Use fear reducing phrases like “you can do this” “it will be Ok” ‘look what I can do” “this is fun” ‘let’s have a try.”

The number one rule is slow and steady. Remember, all those little steps you take along the way, will result in big steps for their swimming future.

Jolene

Jolene

Jolene enjoys writing, sharing and connecting with other like-minded women online – it also gives her the perfect excuse to ignore Mount-Washmore until it threatens to bury her family in an avalanche of Skylander T-shirts and Frozen Pyjama pants. (No one ever knows where the matching top is!) Likes: Reading, cooking, sketching, dancing (preferably with a Sav Blanc in one hand), social media, and sitting down on a toilet seat that one of her children hasn’t dripped, splashed or sprayed on. Dislikes: Writing pretentious crap about herself in online bio’s and refereeing arguments amongst her offspring.

One comment

  1. Learning to float on their backs some little ones down like their head down in the water as far as it should be, don’t like water in there ears and some can’t cope with the smell of the chemicals. I have been to pools – not even been in the water and the strong fumes of the chemical have made my eyes sting. At swimming lessons where our kids go a parent or other responsible adult the child knows have to go in the water with them until they are 3 y.o. At the beginning of the lesson the person in the pool with the child slowly tips water over his/her head. Some use a plastic jug with holes in the bottom. Some little ones shiver in the water and go blue even if the water is warm. One of ours has to wear a one piece rashie with short sleeves and sometimes still gets cold in the water and he is 6 y.o. Some little ones also don’t like the water kicked hard enough that it makes waves like in the photo…..Just things I have observed at swimming lessons with little ones , not just ours

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