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Bride Slammed Online For Asking Bridesmaid To Dye Her Hair For The Wedding!

Bride Slammed Online For Asking Bridesmaid To Dye Her Hair For The Wedding!


A woman has been labelled a Bridezilla after demanding one of her bridesmaids dyes her hair to match the colour scheme of the bridal party. Is the request too much or fair enough?

The woman took to Reddit to say she asked her cousin, who was in her bridal party, to dye her naturally red hair as it clashes with her current colour scheme. With a “blue and green peacock” theme the bride says her cousin’s hair won’t match. She also added that guests had been asked to follow this colour scheme with their clothes but not their hair.

“Ella has natural bright ginger hair,” she wrote in the post about her cousin. “I would never ask someone to permanently change their hair for my wedding, I know that would be bonkers so I suggested some temporary hair dye.”

Her cousin declined to do it fearing the colour would permanently stain her hair.  “I thought this was ridiculous because it literally says washes out in like 14 washes. But Ella says because her hair is completely natural colour it might take strongly to her hair,” the bride wrote.


After a lot of pushing and prodding, the bride came up with another suggestion – a wig. But her cousin said she would “feel self-conscious and weird wearing a wig”.

“So she won’t dye it, and won’t cover it up. I really don’t want to come across as a bridezilla but butt length flaming red hair will destroy the wedding photos, and ruin the colour scheme completely. I’m at a loss, I can’t cut her from the wedding because my mum would murder me but I can’t have freaking Merida ruining the photos.”

Commenters were quick to point out what a diva the bride was being. The post was flooded with comments slamming the bride for her disgusting behaviour.

“This is her natural hair. If she had artificial colouring, I can see asking her to dye it again, but you are asking someone to change their natural hair colour. Yes your wedding, but there are limits and you have exceeded the limit,” one person wrote.

“It is always bridezilla behavior to try to get someone to change their physical appearance,” another added.

In an updated post, the bride said the matter had been sorted out as her cousin had dropped out of the wedding.

“Ella has dropped out of the wedding because we couldn’t reach a compromise so it doesn’t matter anymore,” the bride wrote.

Well, that’s that then!

Images: Pixabay


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Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal is a writer and blogger who loves nothing more than watching back to back episodes of crime shows. Should she ever find herself needing to cover up a crime, she'll know exactly what to do! Her dream is to one day live in Palm Springs where she can do her writing poolside while drinking endless gin and tonics. Mum to the cutest twin boys in the world, she loves nothing more than the sound of their laughter (usually heard when they're conspiring against her). Entertainment writer and pop culture junkie, she will be bringing you all the celebrity gossip and news that your brain can handle. You can follow her blog at and on Instagram at Chrystalovevintage

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