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Is Un-friending Someone On Facebook Bullying?

You may want to rethink blocking or un-friending that certain someone from Facebook next time you’re angry. It may get you into more trouble than you think.
Employers around the country will be looking to update their social media policies after a decision by the Workplace Tribunal found unfriending someone on Facebook can constitute workplace bullying.

Rachael Roberts, an employee of real estate agency VIEW Launceston, went to the Fair Work Commission (FWC) in February this year alleging she was being bullied by her colleague sales administrator Lisa Bird and her husband James, the business owner.
Ms Roberts, a real estate agent for more than 10 years, named nearly 20 run-ins, with Mrs Bird, in which she claimed she was “belittled and humiliated”.

During one such incident,  Mrs Bird called her a “naughty little schoolgirl running to the teacher” after Ms Roberts had phoned Mr Bird to ask why none of her listed properties were displayed in the front window of the business.
After the meeting, Ms Roberts said Mrs Bird had pointed at her, told her to sit down when she had tried to leave the meeting and stood in front of the door.
Sitting in her car in a “very distressed state” after the meeting, Ms Roberts said it occurred to her that Mrs Bird might make a Facebook comment about the incident — but when she went to check, she found she had been unfriended.

“This action by Mrs Bird evinces a lack of emotional maturity and is indicative of unreasonable behaviour, the likes of which I have already made findings on,” FWC deputy president Nicole Wells found.
“The ‘schoolgirl’ comment, even accepting of Mrs Bird’s version of events, which I am not, is evidence of an inappropriate dealing with Ms Roberts which was provocative and disobliging.
“I am of the view that Mrs Bird took the first opportunity to draw a line under the relationship with Ms Roberts on 29 January 2015, when she removed her as a friend on Facebook as she did not like Ms Roberts and would prefer not to have to deal with her.”
Ms Roberts also claimed she was treated differently to other employees as Mrs Bird would not acknowledge her in the morning and would deliver other people’s photocopying or printing to them, but not to Ms Roberts.
The Commission agreed with Ms Roberts that the behaviour was unreasonable.
In all, nine of her 18 alleged incidents of bullying were upheld by the Commission, which issued an order to stop bullying.
She said the alleged behaviour, which occurred between November 2013 and January 2015, resulted in her being unable to sleep, depressed and highly anxious, requiring medication from her GP and psychologist.
“I am satisfied the behaviour carried out by Mrs Bird fulfils the prerequisite criteria of [of the Act] and therefore constitutes bullying at work of Ms Roberts,” Ms Wells said.

What do you think? Should un-friending someone from Facebook be considered bullying?

Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal is a writer and blogger who loves nothing more than watching back to back episodes of crime shows. Should she ever find herself needing to cover up a crime, she'll know exactly what to do! Her dream is to one day live in Palm Springs where she can do her writing poolside while drinking endless gin and tonics. Mum to the cutest twin boys in the world, she loves nothing more than the sound of their laughter (usually heard when they're conspiring against her). Entertainment writer and pop culture junkie, she will be bringing you all the celebrity gossip and news that your brain can handle. You can follow her blog at and on Instagram at Chrystalovevintage

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