“Oh my god, your friends are wild sensitive,” one commenter wrote. “Just because they feel insecure about their bodies doesn’t mean they get to dictate what everyone else wears.”

“[New Mum] was upset and confided in a friend who just happened to be there while she was upset,” the commenter wrote. “[Mutual Friend] then ran around complaining to Original Poster, calling OP insensitive and making it a whole thing. By all accounts New Mum and OP had a nice visit and chatted for several hours. Not sure how New Mum could be seen as the [expletive] here at all.”

“That’s just hormones,” a third commenter stated. “Not worth stressing about.”

There were a couple of people however who sided with the mum saying the friend should have considered the mum’s feelings when deciding on an outfit to wear.

“You should’ve been conscious of your friend’s perspective and feelings,” one person wrote. “I know it’s your body and you can dress how you want but holy s–t, that’s just common decency.”

While another person had this truth bomb to say:

“If you were stopping by before or after a workout then I guess it’s understandable, but if it’s just something you threw on you could have been more sensitive. You know when you wear tight pants and a crop top that it is a little sexier than sweats or a maternity gown. And her husband is there and is going to look at you which, let’s be honest, is probably what you wanted. You are one of two women in your friend group of six w/ no kids. Maybe that feels good to you that your body isn’t trashed by childbirth. If you do have a child, you will see your body is all messed up, and in pain and not only are you overwhelmed taking care of the baby, the thought of your husband ever being attracted to you again or even having sex or intimacy feels like it will never happen again. Then the raging hormones on top of that, lack of sleep, it is rough, please don’t come around in your skimpy outfits.”