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The Many Ways Kids Cyber Bully

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The Many Ways Kids Cyber Bully

Kids often feel anonymous and more powerful when they’re online, causing them to say and do things they never would in real life. A cyber bully is particularly dangerous because they can transfer their message with more anonymity than face-to-face communication , providing them a sense of protection as the aggressor.

The playground bully has evolved into the online bully, or “cyber bully,” hiding behind a computer screen or mobile phone. Cyber bullying is known as “indirect” bullying – using name calling or deliberate exclusion to hurt others rather than kicks and punches. Stats show that 42% of kids have been a victim of cyber bullying, and one in four has had it happen more than once.

Here are some things a cyber bully may do:

  •  Send harassing emails or instant messages to a target.
  •  Post embarrassing photos of a target.
  •  Spread rumours through email, instant messaging, or postings on blogs and social networking sites like Facebook.
  • Post defamatory messages on online message boards or social networking sites.
  • Steal a person’s identity and post menacing messages in their name on social networking sites or blogs.
  • Be a mix of both a playground bully and a cyber bully.
  • Build an entire website that targets another student or teacher.

Cyber bullying is a whole school community issue. Schools do have an obligation to provide a safe social and emotional environment for their students. Parents also have an obligation, to set rules and expectations with their children around their internet use and behaviour.

Responding to cyber bullying:

  • Support the person being bullied, and acknowledge them for letting you know
  • Investigate the incident(s) and collect evidence.
  • Alert the school of your concerns.
  • Schools should let the parents know of the issues which are occurring
  • Keep the lines of communication open
  • Resist the urge to “pull the plug”. Students will not let others know about the harassment and bullying if they fear having the technology taken away from them

Article supplied by Kidproof Melbourne

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Jolene enjoys writing, sharing and connecting with other like-minded women online – it also gives her the perfect excuse to ignore Mount-Washmore until it threatens to bury her family in an avalanche of Skylander T-shirts and Frozen Pyjama pants. (No one ever knows where the matching top is!) Likes: Reading, cooking, sketching, dancing (preferably with a Sav Blanc in one hand), social media, and sitting down on a toilet seat that one of her children hasn’t dripped, splashed or sprayed on. Dislikes: Writing pretentious crap about herself in online bio’s and refereeing arguments amongst her offspring.

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