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Woman Told to Leave Swimming Pool Because Her Bathing Suit May Excite Teenage Boys

Woman Told to Leave Swimming Pool Because Her Bathing Suit May Excite Teenage Boys


A couple were left speechless after being told they had to leave the swimming pool in their own apartment complex. The reason? People complained that the woman’s bathing suit was highly inappropriate, especially around young boys. In fact she was told to cover up so she doesn’t excite the teenagers or other men using the pool. (Insert eye roll.)

The woman in question,Tori, was wearing a pink one piece bathing suit that featured a cheeky Brazilian style back which accentuated her ‘assets.’ However it was by no means a thong or g-string style.

Upon arriving at the pool, which was inside the premises of their own apartment complex, people around her complained about her skimpy swim wear, Tori was told that she was making people uncomfortable and that the pink suit was inappropriate for a family setting and might “excite” the teenage boys.

Tori was left speechless by the events that unfolded but especially upset was her fiancé Tyler. In fact he took to Facebook with a photo of Tori in the pink bathing suit alongside an explanation of the unbelievable events that unfolded. The post has since gone viral with over 15,000 reactions and almost 17,000 shares.

Image: Facebook

Check out Tyler’s take below:

“I have never really witnessed sexual harassment and/or ‘rape culture’…until today with Smoky Crossing Apartments.

“Today my fiancée was faced with either changing her bathing suit, covering up with shorts, or leaving the pool that we paid a $300 fee to maintain on top of a monthly rent of nearly $1000 (not including utilities and wifi).”

“Tori was accused of wearing a ‘thong bathing suit’ and told there were complaints about the way she was dressed after roughly 3 minutes tops, of us arriving there,” he continued.

“We both kind of sat there in disbelief around five of our friends, some of which are residents and some not.

“So, Tori decided to go to the apartment office, which I regret not accompanying her on, and address the issue politely and calmly with the leasing consultant about the situation in a more private setting.”

“In the office, the leasing consultant (who, for now, I will not name) insisted upon letting Tori take her picture to show ‘how inappropriate’ her bathing suit was, and instructed her to look into a mirror at her own body.

“When my fiancée replied with ‘I know what I look like, I bought this myself, it’s not a thong’ the consultant told Tori that if she didn’t have kids herself, she wouldn’t understand. She was told that the leasing consultant wouldn’t want her own kids around Tori.”

“When Tori explained that yes, she does indeed have a larger butt than a lot of people, and that 95% of the things she wears ride up when she walks, the woman told Tori that a ‘normal bathing suit covers your entire butt’ and again deemed my fiancée’s body inappropriate.

“Tori, however, refused this because there are obviously different types of bathing suits. She was told I wasn’t allowed to spray tanning lotion on parts of her body that she can’t reach because the consultant insisted that she could reach them herself.

“She was told that her body, because it’s built more curvy than others is ‘too inappropriate’ for children to be around. She was told ‘there are a lot of teenage boys in this complex, and you don’t need to excite them.'”

“Today my fiancée was told that she is less important than how men feel around her. That Tori is less important than a man’s urges to be sexual towards her.

“I think she’s the most beautiful woman in the world, but I also respect her. I would never make her or any other woman feel less than what she’s worth because of her outfit or her looks. This is how rape culture continues to grow.

“I’ve never seen my fiancée embarrassed to the point where she can’t even look her best friends in the face. I’ve never seen her cry like she did in our apartment today. Never seen her want to be isolated like that.

“All because some ignorant [expletive] think they can police the size and shape of her body. I’ve never seen a woman so disrespected.

“Mind you, the Pool Rules sign states only ‘duly appropriate attire must be worn at all times. No cut offs.'”

“I’ve included some pictures of what she was wearing, which is a one piece. Please if you’re considering Smoky Crossing apartment complex, don’t. For this reason and many others. I’m honestly still in shock from what I’ve seen today.

“When I went down to get some information from them myself on the woman who demeaned my fiancée, I was met with a whole lot of blank stares and stutters.

“The woman who demeaned my fiancée ‘wasn’t present in the office’ when I went up there to discuss the incident. This will not be the last that’s heard of this issue.”

“MY POINT: My fiancée being told she should cover up on a 90 degree day in our own apartment pool because she will ‘excite teenage boys’ is [expletive]. I will not stand for this.

“My fiancée should be able to wear a bathing suit without being sexualized and demeaned. She shouldn’t feel violated. I will make a live video of my personal opinion and reasons why this is unnecessary soon.”

What do you think? Should Tory have been made to cover up in her own swimming pool?

Images: Pixabay

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Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal Lovevintage

Chrystal is a writer and blogger who loves nothing more than watching back to back episodes of crime shows. Should she ever find herself needing to cover up a crime, she'll know exactly what to do! Her dream is to one day live in Palm Springs where she can do her writing poolside while drinking endless gin and tonics. Mum to the cutest twin boys in the world, she loves nothing more than the sound of their laughter (usually heard when they're conspiring against her). Entertainment writer and pop culture junkie, she will be bringing you all the celebrity gossip and news that your brain can handle. You can follow her blog at and on Instagram at Chrystalovevintage


  1. Once upon a time, women were not allowed to show ankles, because it might get men excited. When women started wearing skirts just below the knee, there were concerns that men might get excited. In the 60s the mini skirt and hot pants craze started, and there was concern that men might get excited.

    Ok, men and boys might get excited. They’ll get excited at any of the above stages. They need to learn that males and females have bodies. They need to understand sexuality. They need to understand the respect and obligations that comes with appreciating sexuality.

    It’s ridiculous to impose such rules on the basis that men and boys might get excited. I’m sure they’ll enjoy it and find a way to relieve their sexual impulses and frustrations.

    Don’t punish women with the excuse that it might get males excited.

  2. I’ve been to wet’n’wild and gstring bikinis have been used and felt super uncomfortable. Our 7 year old could not understand why she was wearing her “undies” .in public. I honestly think if your in a place with families it’s inappropriate

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